Study in Titus- What it is to be a young Christian
What leadership is:
Paul says he left Titus is Crete to “set in order what remains and appoint elders in every city as I directed you, namely, if any man is above reproach, the husband of one wife, having children who believe, not accused of dissipation or rebellion. For the overseer must be above reproach as God’s steward, not self-willed, not quick-tempered, not addicted to wine, not pugnacious, not fond of sordid gain, but hospitable, loving what i good, sensible, just, devout, self-controlled, holding fast the faithful word which is in accordance with the teaching, so that he will be able both to exhort in sound doctrine and to refute those who contradict.” (1:5b-9)
So, what exactly is Paul doing with this list of seemingly impossible list of qualifications? Is he trying to set Titus up to fail in his search to provide the new Cretan church with leadership? I don’t think that Paul meant it as a discouragement. It’s not a list that is made to make men seem unworthy, but I think its more of a list like the 10 commandments: something to show us where we have gone wrong. Now leadership isn’t just restricted to the church. It applies to the home, especially to the man of the house. So, how do you match up? Are you “above reproach” before God? Let’s first take a look at the definition of the word reproach so as to understand if there is possibly a way to find a loophole in which we could squeeze ourselves. Reproach means “to find fault with” (dictionary.com). So, lets look and see if any man can be above reproach. Romans 3:23 says, “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Romans 5:12-13 says, “Therefore, just as through one man sin entered into the world, and death through sin, and so death spread to all the men, because all sinned- for until the Law sin was in the world, but sin is not imputed when there is no law.” Clearly no one can be above reproach. So then, why does Paul seem to contradict himself? In his earlier letter to the church of Rome he says that all men have fallen short, yet to Titus in Crete he writes find men who are above reproach. How is Titus supposed to find men who are above reproach when all men have fallen short of the glory of God? I will do my best to explain. Paul is telling Titus to find men who are above reproach in the eyes of men. This does not mean that these men are saints and holy to their very bones. No, they are first and foremost men, meaning that they have a sinful nature. Paul is not asking Titus to find men without sin, for there was only one man to ever walk the planet who was without sin and that is our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. However, Paul is asking Titus to find men who are upright in the eyes of the people, men who will inspire others to look to God. That is what he means by above reproach. Now then, my question is, how do others view you? Do they look to God when they see you? Or do they damn you as a hypocrite? See Paul understood that to be a leader, you needed to have others look up to you. When he was Saul, men followed him because he was their idea of the perfect Jew. And as the Apostle Paul, Christians looked up to him because to them he was above reproach. He taught them well and using sound logic and reason to debate. This he proved on Mars Hill in Greece. To be a leader is not to be without fault. Everyman has his faults. To be a leader is to be someone who others can look to and say “I wish I was like him”. Think about the leaders in you life. Your parents, youth pastor, teachers, government, etc. How many of these people would you follow because you really want to? If you can’t say yes, then I think it would be a good idea to sit down and rethink your priorities. Granted, the government is corrupt and so this may no apply to them. However, we have the ability to choose our government officials so it does apply to them for we put them there. Look at your role model. Does he/she display good morals? Is he/she honoring God with all they can? Who we choose to follow has major repercussions upon how we will view God and the world. Without good Christian leaders in our lives, we will become immersed in a society that rejects God. So how do we spot good Christian leaders? Look to what Paul told Titus. You see, everything in life there is an answer for in the Bible. The problem comes when we begin to think we already know it all and don’t need to look at the Bible for answers. That’s how cults begin or hypocrites mar the image of Christianity. We as a body of Christ need to be challenging each other to search the Word for answers. And if they aren’t clearly found then we need to pray with each other and seek the counsel of God. I challenge you to look at those leaders in your life and ask yourself, do I see them as above reproach? And if the answer is know then go to the person and respectfully and kindly explain the concerns you find with their character or attitude or whatever is not above reproach. Let’s do a little iron sharpens iron here. Let’s make each other stronger in Christ.